Relationships...

Relationships are a very complicated thing to understand, would think the best seller in a relationship fix book would still have some questions in mind when it comes to relationships. Relationships are just too complex, complicated a thing to understand fully.

Been a fan of tv sitcoms/series all my life. Favourite would definitely be FRIENDS. For those who havent watched it before, i would definitely recomend it to everyone. The one im sorta hooked on to now is SCRUBS, and i would recomend that too. The thing with al this series are that at some point or another...relationships are 'a must' in it. And while watching a few eps of scrubs today, just at the part where the whole relationship thing kicks in with the main character...it sorta got me thinking bout relationships again.

What distinguish a good relationship?What makes it work?How do couples solve problems?how do they get together anyways?should it be mutual where no one controls anyone or should the male/female have a bit of authority?if its mutual...how will they come to a decision?How does a relationship end without a fight?how do couples face each other again after they broke up/divorce?just a few questions i came out with...

Well, lots of ppl might just say, well...we just connected. And thats usually the case. Of course, the guys must have lots of balls asking the girl out couz to me...thats one of the scariest things to do. What if the girls says no?how are you 2 going to face each other again without it being odd?Of course if the girl rejects the guy..the guy is going to ask...can we still be friends..and the girl will definitely say...YES...WHAT MAKES YOU THINK WE WONT BE? but in reality, they are still friends...but somehow theres a line...a divider that separates them in some ways. What im trying to say is that, its not always easy for a guy to get the guts to actually ask the girl out...its a risk more likely....if she says yes...you just got the jack pot...but if she says no...things arent gonna be the same. Come to think of it...why is it guys have to be the one to pop the question...to make the first move?girls will always say...its a mans job....but then again...girls or ladies i should say...always say that there should be equality...why not start here? Why not start by having equality where girls can also be the one who ask guys out?

Movin along, what are the diferences in a good couple, a strong couple and a weak couple? My point of view would be...a strong couples are one that usually have problems, lots of them...and ones that will try very very hard to work things out...and when they finally work it out...they become stronger. And does the problems ever end...i doubt it. One might ask, a strong couple shouldnt have lots of problems? i think they should...couz if they have lots of problems, its a sign that they are actually voicing out what they feel, and not just keeping it in so that the other side wont get offended like most couples do...and finally where they keep too much to themselves, where it starts piling up...all of a sudden they just cant take it anymore...thats where it ends. So, i feel that lots of problems is actually not bad a sign for couples...if they can work it out between them without holding any grudges, no aftermath. One other point i think is really important for a healthy relationship is TRUST. i think LOVE is all about TRUST. if you dont have trust...you dont have love. its all about trust. One last point...i would think would be...to love someone for who she/he is, not for fame...not for the money...not for the looks...

Im pretty sure there are much more reasons...and points to keep in order to maintain a good relationship...but im pretty sure as well that some of what i just jot down plays a major role in keepin a relationship healthy too huh?

All my life, ive always imagined myself being able to marry around the age 28-30. Having an awesome wife...and lovely kids. Everything seems so easy and bright in my head. But truth is...its nothing like that. At times i really do think about whether i do want to get married, whether it will even happen if i do want to get married. Whether il meet the perfect one which in reality....doesnt reli exist. There is no perfect couple or relationships...just ones that are striving...striving for each other. They will still have problems...thus not being a perfect couple. But yeah...reality is starting to knock off that bright pretty picture in my head...Ah well, who knows what the future holds...onli can hope for the best

There isnt a particular reason why im blogging bt relationships. Was just watchin scrubs and it just popped into my head..and got me thinking i guess. And its all my point of view....lots of you all might think its bullshit...nonsense. Its just my point of view. And...yeah...who am i to say anything bt relationships...ive only had one. Sure it lasted quite a while...but it ended badly...really badly...so..who am i to say anything...